Then again, if I didn’t know any better I’d call you the new Dr Phil. *ducks*

I believe in what you say. Not believe, that is, in some bizarre cultish ’sacrifice a large potato to the Divine Jerry’ sort of way, but in a more heartfelt understanding that at the end of the day, if you don’t want it - whatever “it” may be - in the most stubborn, entirely and deeply truthful of ways, then you’ll likely never get it.

I think that love in itself is a perfect example. But that would just be my soppy side blabbering on again.

And I love that quote - “Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.” I think I’ll take that to the grave with me. Or, at the very least, wherever they scatter my ashes. After all - how can one find what’s not there? Sort of like Columbus stumbling upon India - nice try, wrong continent.