Then again, if I didn’t know any better I’d call you the new Dr Phil. *ducks*

I believe in what you say. Not believe, that is, in some bizarre cultish ’sacrifice a large potato to the Divine Jerry’ sort of way, but in a more heartfelt understanding that at the end of the day, if you don’t want it - whatever “it” may be - in the most stubborn, entirely and deeply truthful of ways, then you’ll likely never get it.

I think that love in itself is a perfect example. But that would just be my soppy side blabbering on again.

And I love that quote - “Life isn’t about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself.” I think I’ll take that to the grave with me. Or, at the very least, wherever they scatter my ashes. After all - how can one find what’s not there? Sort of like Columbus stumbling upon India - nice try, wrong continent.

Anyway, Migraines. I don’t get them much anymore now that I’ve found out my food allergies… err… I haven’t had ONE migraine since. Hmmmm. Last one that I had I remember the lights (in Home Despot) became all weird… I knew that I was losing my sight. Eep! I knew that I had to get home - quick! Instead I grabbed a coffee, a couple of anacins, and headed for the quiet, dark, car.

15 minutes later I was good. As you no doubt know, you either catch it early, or endure the hell. BTW I’ve since learned that one [major] source of migraine is massive blood flow to the brain (dunno what causes this though). The caffeine - your friend - restricts the blood flow. You’re best NOT using aspirin (which increases blood flow) methinks (although I am *not* a doctor). Use acemediphin (oh yeah, like I can spell that!) or codeine.